After Mom or Dad

Book Six · Your Surviving Parent · Chapter 3

Who has power of attorney now, and does it need updating?

“Mom and Dad had powers of attorney naming each other. Dad's gone. Does Mom's still work?”

The short answer

A power of attorney for money ends when the person who signed it dies, so the one signed by the parent who died has ended. Your surviving parent's own power of attorney is a separate paper. If it named the parent who died as agent, check whether it names a backup.

If there is no backup, your parent can ask a lawyer whether to sign a new one while they are able to decide. Whether money and health care need separate papers depends on the state. And no power of attorney lets anyone manage Social Security.

This chapter explains how things usually work in the United States. It is not legal, tax or financial advice, and the rules where you live may differ. Before you act on anything here, check it with one of the people named at the end of the chapter.

In the full chapter

The chapter explains what exists and what to ask, then ends with what to do, what can wait so you can set it aside, and who can answer the questions that are yours alone.

The rules, phone numbers and web addresses in this book were checked against the agencies’, courts’ and organizations’ own pages in October 2026. Where a rule differs by state, the book names one state as an example. Check anything you rely on with the office itself.

From Book 6: Your Surviving Parent

This page has the short answer from chapter 3. The full chapter explains, in plain words, what exists, what to ask, and who can answer. The book covers months 3 to 24 after the death.

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